My best friend came over to discuss the plight of a few people in our mutual friendship group who seem to be in a lot of turmoil. This isn't a particularly happy memory in itself, but I was able to contribute ideas to the discussion which I think helped. Additionally, when she arrived I had just finished eating some of the gratin I cooked earlier in the week, and was halfway through cooking green tomato and chili jam. She said 'Something smells good,' and I showed her what I was cooking. She laughed and asked 'Can I put you on My Single Friend?'

I had to think for a minute, but soon the answer was obvious. She said 'Here you are, a good looking bloke, and you're making jam, and you're single. What do you think?' so I agreed. It's always lovely to have compliments sent your way, especially from someone as trusted as she - they don't come along that often - and it's comforting that I feel confident enough to meet new women after so many years alone.